Imagine this: You are comfortable in your current job role. You feel like you have a strong relationship with all of your colleagues, and that you work productively together. What if your managing director turned round to you and said that he would like to relocate you to another branch?
How would you react?
Will you react badly and suggest that you work well with your current team, and that you don’t think it’s fair to have to move?
Or will you take it as a business opportunity that will enable you to progress further within your career?
Whatever your response may be, the conversation can be controlled by listening to each other.
You’re more likely to get the result you want to gain out of the conversation if you are:
· Assertive
· Calm
· Rational
And most importantly, listen to what the other person has to say without jumping straight to conclusions.
I have to say that I’m quite bad at jumping to conclusions in certain situations. I’ve learned recently that it is most definitely more beneficial for both parties if you actually listen to what the other person has to say, rather than jumping in and saying what you think without actually thinking through what it is that you are going to say. This way the conversation will be worthwhile for both parties that are involved.
When presented with a conversation like this that what’s everyone wants isn’t it? – a successful conversation?
So before jumping to conclusions and perhaps thinking that ‘it’s not fair’ that you have to relocate, think about the benefits that could be in store for you. Make sure you bargain with your managing director to make sure you get the most out of the move. The move might be seen as a ‘bit of a hassle’ to you at the time, but you never know it could perhaps push you towards bigger and better things, which can include:
· Pay rise
· Advancing your position with the company
· Meeting new people
So, before jumping to conclusions when asked to relocate think of the options and benefits that are in store for you. Think of what you want to gain from the conversation, and what you would like the outcome to be.
Also, remember that your managing director wouldn’t have asked you if they didn’t think you were suited to the position. So, think of it as a compliment! :)


Hi Daisy,
ReplyDeleteI would definatley take it as a positive to be asked to relocate and think of it as an exciting opportunity for the future!
However, I would be slightly worried about relocating my whole life so would have to weigh up all the different pros and cons but would try and think about all of the positives :)
Amy x
Hi Daisy,
ReplyDeleteI think always looking on the bright side is a great way to approach changes in the office.
Relocation can offer so many benefits that it is often worth the risk.
Great post!
Marie x
Hi Daisy,
ReplyDeleteI agree with what Marie has to say to be honest as I believe that at first it can be a shock to the system but relocation can offer change which can result in positive benefits.
josh :)
I think it really depends of the context...some places are much more desirable to work in than others and being relocated in one of those can clearly be seen as a reward (and vice versa). Anyway you give extremely good advices to cope with this situation :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for the comments everyone!
ReplyDeleteI think that relocation can be an exciting change, and can benefit people when given the chance. Therefore, Marie and Josh, I can totally see where you're coming from!
Amy and Alix, I can definitely relate to you that relocation is something to be thought about, before agreeing to take a particular postion straight away. Furthermore, that's a very good point to think about when faced with this kind of situation! :)
Daisy xx
I think the most important element in this situation would be staying calm but also being assertive. There is no need to get angry as this will help no one. You've covered an important topic Daisy, nice one!
ReplyDelete/Charlie
Hi Daisy,
ReplyDeletereally liked this post and thought it was very interesting! I liked the bullet points as it made the post easy to remember and reference too! I liked the way you've suggested to deal with negotiation and I will take this on board! x
Hello Charlie and Corrie!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you both enjoyed the post. :) I'm sure these tips will help you if you're ever in a similar situation in the future.
Daisy xx